Forgive and not forget?
Monday, 2 June 2014 | 14:44 | 0 ruler breaker
Forgiving
is something that people tends to forget after something had happened.
It’s not as easy as it seems, but it’s definitely not that hard. I've been through situations when in the past, I had a really bad quarrel with my friend, and we just stop talking literally, we don’t even look at each other when we pass by one another, probably would get a glare instead. Apologizing seems hard doesn't it?
Putting down your pride, letting all that unhappiness goes away, “I’m Sorry”. Yesterday I had a chat with a friend of mine, Yoga, and kind of came out with something, well forgiving yet not forgetting, well I’m not asking you to hold on to the grudge , no no! Remembering the point when problems could be ignited, remind your friends so that they can stop making that same mistake again. I think it takes practices to just let go of that negative point and accepting the fact how this person is, is more important. You know how that person is after spending so much time together, why let that negative side of him/her affect you? Well, my method towards this problems is “close one eye”. No, not asking you to wink at people. Just forgo the flaws of that person, no one is perfect. Forgiving and remind them about the mistake they have done, so that the same problem wouldn't occur again.
Alright, I've got to go!! Exams are coming soon, and I’m not prepared at all. Talk to you real soon! (Photos taken from google)